Aromatherapy Do you use Aromatherapy during your Session?
No, I have Glade Plug Ins that do spray, and I will use Febreze Air Fresher at times, but I don't use Scented Candles or Scented Lotions as what might be nice for one person, might cause breathing issues
or allergic reaction for the next client.
Aroused What happens if I Become Sexually Aroused during the session?
Arousal is a healthy human response to all kinds of things including touch. It is not a problem in a non-sexual session. The important thing is that neither of us respond to it in a manner
intended to increase arousal. It can be acknowledged or not and simply allowed to come and go without taking focus
Arrival Time What time should I arrive for my appointment?
I try to keep to my schedule to the best of my ability. There are times that you can arrive a little early, but if you arrive and the Do Not Disturb Sign is up, please don't knock, more then likely
I'm still finishing up with the prior client. I will usually send a message to my clients if I'm available early so in case they are running early they know they can come to the room.
Cancellation What is the Cancellation Policy?
I had to start a Cancellation Policy as I have No Call No Shows or last minute Cancellations, this is my Livelihood, and my Career. No Call No Shows have a Zero Tolerance, if you have a No Call No
Show, you can go to the Cancellations and Pay a $75 Fee if you wish to ever schedule again in the future. I do understand that emergency happen, and I don't want to scare people off because of the Cancellation Policy, I can be Flexible, but there are people that have patterns. If canceled less then 1 Hour before the Session it will be a $50 Cancellation Fee and if within 3 hours will be $25 Cancellation Fee. It is hard to refill spots last minute, and I usually have people scheduled around you so I can not always refill a spot last minute, so I end up loosing money, which if I don't make the money I need to while traveling to your city then I may not be back, which will effect other clients that need my services in your area as well.
Clothing What should I wear for a Cuddle Session?
Please wear something that you are comfortable in. Pajama pants and sweats are popular cuddle wear. A minimum of shorts and a t-shirt is required for both parties.
Contact List Do you let Clients know when your returning to their city?
Yes, I do have a Client Contact List for each City that I go to, if you would like to be added Click Here, I will notify my clients that I will be returning
to their City a few days before so they can start scheduling before I arrive and before New Clients get the chance to take a spot that they may desire.
Cuddling Do we have to Cuddle?
Cuddling takes many forms. Be creative! As long as you are abiding by the code of conduct it is allowed. Sometimes it looks like massages, playing games, dancing, singing, having a meal,
reading aloud to one another, eye gazing, etc
Cuddling Code of Conduct
Please review Code of Conduct before scheduling.
Licensed Are you licensed?
Yes, I'm licensed in the State of Arizona and complete my 24 hours of Continuing Education every 2 years that is required by the state to keep my License Active. You can see more information
regarding License and Education here.
Lotion Do you use Lotions or Oils?
I use Soothing Touch Lotion, it is Professional Massage Lotion, you can see additional information about it here. If you prefer a
special Lotion or Oil you can bring it along for me to use for your session.
Massage Session How long is the Massage Session?
Typically, an Hour Massage is 50 Minutes, 90 Minute Massage is 75 Minutes, this is to allow for you to get redressed and to prepare the room for the next client. Yes at times I do schedule back to
Multiple Bookings Can I schedule Multiple Times with you?
Yes, but when you book 2 or more spots while in your city, they must all be prepaid. After receiving your first massage, you can also elect to schedule a second session while I am still in your
city, which you don't have to worry about prepaying.
Out Calls Do you do Out Callas?
Yes, I do Out Calls, but based on availability, would need time on both ends of the Massage to Drive to and from your location, which means if I already have someone booked to close to when you want your
Out Call, it may not be possible. Also the Out Call is based on Distance of Travel, which is $25 every 10 miles driven, I do verify the distance on Mapquest before booking the appointment.
Out Calls need to be prepaid as well, as I have had people try to renegotiate the price, or give bogus address or room numbers to play games with me and my time, which then I loose other
appointments. If the payment is not received within 30 minutes of scheduling, I will figure you changed your mind and will not be coming out. I will bring my table with me if there is enough
room to set it up, which I will always as, if not we can work on your bed. Either way, I will bring my Lotion and Music. Click here for more information on Rates.
Pain Will the Massage hurt and be painful?
Honestly it can, depends on what is going on with your body. I do use Trigger Point, Compression and Deep Tissue when working. There can be discomfort and pain, but the pain will subside
shortly and take the issues that you had with it in most cases. Shoulders and Lower Back Issues is usually where most the pain will be felt. Just know that as a Trained Massage Therapist, I
do know what I'm doing and will not hut you intentionally. After a good Deep Tissue Massage I always recommend to drink about a Gallon of water to flush your system out. At times you will
experience pain the day following, but the day after that everything should melt away.
Prepay Do I have to prepay before the Massage?
Not always, but it is an option that you have. If you want an Out Call, Extended Session of 2+ Hours or a Session after 9pm then yes Prepay is Mandatory, finally, if you have had a No Show, then it
will be mandatory for you to Prepay for your sessions.
I have had to many people play games with Out Calls where I show up at a Hotel an the room is Vacant or Did not realize there was an up charge for Out Calls, with longer sessions I have had people book
them, and not show up, or arrive and decide that they just wanted an Hour after booking 3 hours, and after 9pm I prefer them to be paid one because of the up charge but also, that is the time that I have
most the No Shows, and after Midnight I will wake backup to take care of Clients, but need to be assured they will show up, if they don't there are no refunds.
Pricing Why does your rate go up as the day goes on?
I do try to keep my rates reasonable, but I get up every morning about 7am to get ready for my day, and start working at 9am, most days I don't get a chance to get lunch as I work straight through with
clients. From 6pm to 9pm is when I would usually eat Dinner, but I will put that off for Clients but there is an up charge, then from 9pm to Midnight, I'm usually doing Laundry so I can have Clean
Sheets for the next day, which I can do later so I can see Clients again, but again there is an up charge, then after Midnight of course I'm usually asleep or getting ready to get to bed, as again I wake
up early, but I will work late again for an up charge. I am willing to work but I'm not a Machine and I also need to have a life.
Privacy What are your Privacy Policies?
Your privacy is very important to me. I do not share client information or identity with anyone. Confidentiality is part of my code of conduct. Additionally, if I do see you in public, I will not approach
you or say hello to you, this is nothing personal, just keeping your privacy, if you decide to approach me, that is fine, and we can talk.
Question Have a question that is not here, go ahead and fill out the form and I will get back to you, and possibly create a Q&A item based off
Running Late What if I'm running late?
I do understand traffic and offices, I used to work in Corporate America doing Accounting and I live in a Mega-metropolis as well so understand traffic. Please keep me updated if running late, very
important, as if you are more then 15 minutes late with out contacting me, I will consider it a No Show. If I can I do try to schedule 15 to 30 minutes between appointments if possible, just
depends on the day and scheduling. If I have someone scheduled after you, I will still work on you, we will just have to finish by your scheduled Session End Time. If your not here within 5
minutes of your scheduled start time I will contact you to see if your on your way to confirm.
Session for Cuddling Can you tell me how the session will go?
That can look entirely different for each session. People are unique and have their own preferences. Some like to talk, some don't. Some like a lot of physical contact, some like a little. Sometimes
we feel lively and playful, sometimes we feel quiet and introspective. There are a gazillion right ways to cuddle! As long as you are following the code of conduct and your cuddlist's terms
of agreements, you are doing it right. We hope you will leave feeling more relaxed, better about yourself and more confident about communicating your own needs while respecting the needs of
others. Have fun!
Session for Massage Can you tell me how the session will go?
Honestly everyones body is different, and no 2 Massage Sessions are Identical, yes I will work the entire body, but at times you will need more work in a spot then someone else does, and different people
need different pressure. So I always say the Session is Tailored to Your Bodies Needs.
Shower Can I shower Before or After the Massage?
Yes, but please let me know if you want to shower after the Massage Session as I need to plan to leave time for this after your Session to assure that you don't run into my next Clients Time.
Specialization What do you specialize in?
I specialize in Deep Tissue Therapeutic Massage, focused on Neck, Shoulders, Lower Back and Sciatic Issues, which can includes Swedish, Deep Tissue, Trigger Point, Acupressure, Compression, Stripping and
Stretching, but the treatment is Tailored to your specific Needs and I will determine what is needed as I work on your body.
This is where I have focused most of my Continuing Education, and what I enjoy working on, you can see more information here.
Stretching Do you do Stretching?
Yes, I do stretch the Legs after I work on the Lower Back and Trigger the Gluts, to do the final release of the Lower Back Area, I will stretch your Hamstrings while you are Face Down and then Stretch
your Lower Back and Gluts while Face Up. Additionally if needed, I can stretch your Arms and Shoulders while Face up after working the Arms and Shoulders.
Talking Is okay to talk during a Cuddle Session?
Compassionate listening can be a wonderful part of a cuddle session. Cuddling can also be a wonderful place to not have to talk and to enjoy comfortable silence with another. How much you talk and
what you talk about is entirely up to the two of us.
I am not a counselor or coach, but I will be happy to listen and be honest with you about how much is too much for me in terms of what you share. Everything is confidential unless you share any
information of an illegal nature or the intention to do harm.
Traveling When traveling where are you setup?
When traveling I do drive everywhere and bring my Table and Sheets with me. I will be staying in a Local Hotel and will set my table up in the room, at times I do fly in which case I will get a room
with 2 beds one to work on and one to sleep on, but this is a very rare occasion.
Uncomfortable What if I become uncomfortable?
If you become uncomfortable in any way at any time, please say so. Stop whatever is causing discomfort and adjust accordingly. Please do not wait until your discomfort is large, do this at the first hint
of it. Professional cuddling is consent based and I WANT you to speak up! This is the perfect place to practice using your voice. This is your session and none of it needs to feel any
less than good! If you would like to end your session early for any reason simply let your practitioner know.